Six Themes

six fantasy themes

These six themes all deal with consenting adults engaged in play-acting, fantasy, role play, make-believe, or fictional situations–not genuine or real life situations. See legal disclaimers. Here are detailed descriptions of each theme along with original illustrations of mine to enhance your understanding.

What you see here is provocative and extreme, but everything is totally made up and for pretending only.

You need to be mature enough to know the difference between what is real life versus what is pretend or made up.

At its essence, sexual roleplaying or fantasizing for gay adult men that is derived from fictional depictions of danger, violence, and pain is a pathway to escaping yourself. This website is your pathway to escaping yourself. Don’t hold back. Just let go!



Age Play

A man can derive pleasure from interacting sexually with a younger man. This is controversial, especially in the context of unwanted sexual advances in which younger men are taken advantage of. But, in fantasy situations, where there is no actual taking advantage of anyone, age play can be the starting point for exciting fantasy escape–especially when this becomes a group activity. The center of the pleasure in this theme can often by how the younger man is completely surprised by how skillfully the older man can sexually satisfy him.

age play
Age Play

Master/Slave Play

When gay men choose to delve into master/slave play, one many takes on the dominant role over the other. This can involve one man who is serviced by two others. This kind of role play can involve using restraints so that the submissive man feels the fantasy more deeply. Arousal for both players can be amplified by bondage devices or other sex toys.

master/slave play
Master/Slave Play

Cock/Ball Torture

Contrary to myth, this does not involve actual cock and ball torture. There is no genuine torture–only pretending–but can involve electrical shock applied to areas where there is an immediate and uncontrollable reaction. This theme often is one part of some of the other themes that are explored on this page.

“Cock and Ball Torture”

Prison or Kidnap Play

In prison or kidnap play, things get a little more elaborate. This is a fantasy in which a man is confined in a prison or paramilitary situation, or, a man has been kidnapped and is held against his will. This theme also usually involves other themes that are explored on this page.

prison play
Prison Play

Rape Play

A controversial theme, rape play does not involve actual unwanted sex–only pretending. Again, this theme usually is employed in the other themes that are explored on this page.

rape play
Rape Play

Execution Play

Perhaps the most controversial of all is execution play, which involves pretending to take the life of another. This theme celebrates the imbalance of power that one man has over another rather than the actual taking of another man’s life. Again, this theme usually is employed in the other themes that are explored on this page.

execution play
Execution Play

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